When posing the question to many of this sites fans, the answer seems to be one that is given after some pause. Sometimes it is because the question itself is difficult, and other times it is because it is a question that people tend not to think very much about.

The question is “Where is the most popular spot that women want cum if it is going to be shot on them?”

The follow-up question: “Where do men want to cum on a woman the most, if they are going to shoot their load on them?”

The answer to this question is a lot more difficult than many people think. Part of it is that people have different personal preferences, and the other part is that the vast majority of the time this part of sex seems just to happen.

If it is a blowjob than the guy will come on either himself or in her mouth. Sometimes on her face, but only if she asks for it. If it is vaginal sex and the guy is on top, it will usually end up inside of her, on her stomach, or on the guy himself.

After taking a few minutes to think about it, however, there is a certain amount of control that people have over their ejaculate. In many ways, this is a conversation that more people could stand to have when it comes to sex.

Talking about people’s preferences can lead to additional enjoyment for everyone involved. They can also prevent that awkward moment where as a man you do not know where to cum, and it gives you pause.

Fortunately, dirty talk phone lines are great places to talk to people before the sex scene you are having occurs. It is excellent practice, but it is also a great way to get people’s views as far as why they prefer one place over another.

In adult phonesex chat line role-play, it doesn’t matter where the cum actually goes, but it can make a big difference psychologically for both the man and the woman. Take the time to chat it out, and come up with a spot that will not negatively impact the experience for either person and will positively impact at least one.